It’s a Hard Knock Life!

It’s a Hard Knock Life!

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

A schoolteacher once asked a group of children to write down on a card the one thing in the world they were most thankful for. 

Most of the children wrote down the usual predictable things, but one boy in the class said that he was most thankful for his glasses. “Johnny,” she said, “l see that your glasses are the thing for which you are most thankful. Is there any special reason?” Johnny answered, “Yes, ma’am. My glasses keep the boys from hitting me and the girls from kissing me.” Now, Johnny had learned early that life can be tough – that we need all the help we can get. 

One of the most delightful plays to hit Broadway years ago was the popular musical, “Annie”, which, of course, is based on the Little Orphan Annie comic strip. At the beginning of the play, the little orphan girls sing, “It’s a Hard-Knock Life!” We all can relate to that, can’t we? We all have felt the painful hard knocks of life. 

The little orphan girl wanted so much to be loved and to be saved from her desperate situation, trapped in an orphanage. Even though there seems no way, she has hope, hope wrapped in the dream that someday her parents will come back to reclaim her. 

And finally, she is rescued by the love and strength of Daddy Warbucks. 

In this troubled world, we all have something of Annie in us. We want some word of “good news”. Well, that is precisely where the Christian faith comes in – and that is what the Christian faith is all about. Remember how Jesus said it: “In the world you have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) These three powerful phrases sum up the gospel. Claim it and believe it. 

Let us pray: O Lord, our Shepherd, who leads us by still waters and into green pastures, we thank you for the times in our lives when life is strong and good. Teach us to remember, though, that you are with us at all times, even when the waters are not still and the pastures are not green and when the way is fraught with danger or difficulty. Your loving-kindness surpasses all our imagination, and your faithfulness is to all generations. Now let the joy of your presence break upon us like a gentle, cloudless sunrise with birds singing, that our spirits may soar to you in simple wonder. Through Christ our Redeemer. Amen.

Prayer Changes Us

Prayer Changes Us

There is a story about a mother who happened to overhear her fifth-grade son’s bedtime prayer. She had gone upstairs to check on him and paused for just a moment outside his room. She heard him praying: “Let it be Tokyo! Please God, let it be Tokyo!” When he finished his prayers, she stuck her head in the door and asked him, “What did you mean, ‘Let it be Tokyo’?” “Oh,” the embarrassed boy answered, “we had our geography test today and I was praying that God would make Tokyo the capital of France.”

Prayer changes things, no doubt. But our prayers are not magic, are they? One of the most important things prayer does is to change us! Prayer draws us into the presence of God. It opens our hearts and deepens our relationship with others and with God.

In his book, The Sign in the Subway, Carveth Mitchell tells about a large sign he once saw on a subway platform that said, “God Answers Prayer.” Someone had scrawled on the bottom of the sign, “Sometimes the answer is NO!”

It is so true, isn’t it?

Mitchell went on to make the point that the purpose of prayer is not to get something from God, but, “to have a sense of God’s presence; to feel the assurance that God is in, around and greater than any circumstance; that, come what may, we belong to him and underneath are the everlasting arms…”

Let us pray: Gracious God, we long to know that undergirding our lives and circumstances are your everlasting arms. We long to know your forgiveness, love, and grace. In our moments of prayer, tune our hearts to yours. And, may thy will be done. Amen.

Today

Today

I love the old Family Circus comic strip where the little boy says to his sister, “Yesterday is the past. Tomorrow is the future. And, today is the present. That’s why they call it a gift!”

Sometime back, a friend sent me an email titled, “Affirmation for Today”, by an unknown author. In part it read:

Today I will find the grace to let go of resentments of others and self-condemnation 
over past mistakes. 
Today I will not try to change or improve, anybody but myself. 
Today I will act toward others as though this will be my last day on earth. 
Today I will be unafraid. I will enjoy what is beautiful, and I will believe that as I give 
to the world, the world will give to me. 

Friend of Dial Hope, today is indeed a gift! Sometimes we forget that we have no guarantees of tomorrow. All we have is this moment – right now. Let’s make the most of it!

Our prayer today was written by Saint Teresa of Lisieux sometime in the late 1800s. Let us pray: Just for today, what does it matter, O Lord if the future is dark? To pray now for tomorrow I am not able. Keep my heart, only for today. Grant me your light – just for today. Amen.

Healing of the Soul

Healing of the Soul

I recently re-read my friend Herb Mesa’s autobiography. It was very moving and powerful. Today, I want to share a small piece of this with you. Herb was fighting with the Marines in the South Pacific in World War II. They had invaded the island of Saipan, and after a long gut-wrenching night in the trenches, Herb wrote:

“Later that (next) day, in a bomb crater, I sat by myself to eat my C-rations. It was a crater made by one of our shells. As I ate, the sand below my feet, finding a vacuum beneath, began to sift much like the sand in an hourglass. Suddenly a hand was exposed. Buried beneath this debris was a broken body. I was so moved that I kept looking at that hand. I looked for a wedding band, but either he was not married or the Japanese did not wear wedding bands. I was deeply touched. Was that a trigger finger I saw? Was he a sniper that killed or wounded my comrades? Did he have a family? Was he really young, or older? I was so moved that relating to him in the only way one does in such a distressing situation, I surprised myself with an impulsive gesture of solidarity, full of implications. I reached and touched his hand, now cold and rigid. Was this what Jesus meant when he said, “forgive your enemies?” Too late… but maybe not too late. Maybe the great achievement of forgiveness is not so much that it absolves the one forgiven as that it cleanses the one who forgives.”

In that crater on that war-torn island, even though he disagreed profoundly with the devastation the Japanese soldiers were causing, Herb acknowledged a common humanity with his enemy and began to find healing in his own soul.

Let us pray: Holy God, help us to forgive others as we have been forgiven. And as we do, may we begin to sense your healing grace wash over us. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

What God is Like

What God is Like

Today’s message was written by Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Friend of Dial Hope, Christmas clears up our confusion about God. Christmas shows us what God is like. A seven-year-old boy had been playing outside. His mother called him in for dinner. The little boy ran in, jumped into his chair, and grabbed his fork, ready to eat. “Wait Tommy,” said his mom, “you have germs on your hands. Go wash up before we eat.” Tommy scrambled down, ran and washed his hands, came back, climbed up into his chair, grabbed his fork, and started to eat. Again his mother stopped him. “Wait, Tommy,” she said, “we must say the blessing before we eat. We want to thank God for our food.” Little Tommy put down his fork, shook his head, and muttered wearily, “Germs and God, Germs, and God. That’s all I ever hear around here, and I ain’t seen neither one of them!”

We can sympathize with Tommy’s predicament. Yet Christmas gives God a face. Christmas shows us who God is and what God is like. This is the “good news,” of Christmas. Jesus shows what God is like and the word is “Love.” God is not an angry judge who must be appeased. God is not a power monger, demanding his “pound of flesh.” God is like a loving parent, who cares and understands, and is concerned about the welfare of all his children. That’s the good news of Christmas, and that’s what keeps us going.

Let us pray: Loving God, may these days of Advent keep us focused on whose birthday we celebrate at Christmastime. In everything we do, may we acknowledge the reason for the season, our Savior Jesus Christ. In his name, we pray. Amen. 

In the Waiting

In the Waiting

In the book of James, it is written, “Be patient, therefore, brothers and sisters, until the coming of the Lord. The farmer waits for the precious crop from the earth, being patient with it until it receives the early and the late rains. You also must be patient. Strengthen your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is near.”

I remember being in a Sunday morning class sometime back when we were talking about patience. One of my friends said, “I know in my own life, I have to continually remind myself that the time I have here on earth is a gift from God. And the interruptions, the delays, and even the challenges themselves may be a gift. Maybe there is something I am supposed to learn or experience or hear. Maybe there is something I’m supposed to receive. I think about how when I’m late for work and my daughter is tugging on my shirt and I’m trying to get out the door and she wants help tying her shoe. It’s a reminder to look her in the eye one more time and tell her I love her.”

It’s true, sometimes even amidst the biggest challenges in life. I think about a friend who died too young of ovarian cancer. She kept up her spirits so well. I remember her saying, “I didn’t want this. And I don’t believe God gave me this. But in a way, it has been a blessing. Life has become so vibrant and real. Each moment becomes so precious; I appreciate it so much more than I ever did; the laughter of my children, each moment with a friend…”

It makes me wonder, maybe even in this challenge I’m facing right now – maybe there is an opportunity to grow spiritually – or to help someone else.

In his book Reaching Out, Henri Nouwen, writes, “The spiritual life is, first of all, a patient waiting, that is, a waiting in suffering, during which the many experiences of unfulfillment remind us of God’s absence. But it also is a waiting in expectation that allows us to recognize the first signs of the coming of God in the center of our pains… It is the center of our longing for the absent God that we discover his footprints…” 

Let us pray: Loving God, as we long for healing, as we long for reconciliation, as we long for a new day, grant us patience. Help us learn what we need to learn and to give what we need to give and to trust that you are with us, even now. Amen.

By the Tender Mercy of our God

By the Tender Mercy of our God

In the Gospel of Luke (chapter 1:78), we read these beautiful words spoken by Zechariah:

By the tender mercy of our God,
    the dawn from on high will break upon us,
to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death,
    to guide our feet into the way of peace.”

This is a prophecy of the coming of Christ… that he would give light to those who sit in darkness, and… guide our feet into the way of peace.

What does it mean to be guided into the way of peace? 

When I think about peace right now, I can’t help but think about the Russian invasion of Ukraine. So many lives lost, so much destruction. But then, even closer to home, even in our own communities we see so much anger. There continues to be a rage boiling over and people are forgetting – not only common courtesy but human decency. 

What does it mean to be guided into the way of peace within our own hearts and communities? 

Sometime back in a Wednesday night class, we learned that Martin Luther King Jr. had a simple “rule of life” that he lived by. There were ten things on his list. One of them was, “Refrain from violence of fist, tongue, or heart.” I like that… Jesus once observed that it is what’s in the heart that leads us to act… King also promised himself to: “Observe with both friend and foe the ordinary rules of courtesy.”

I am reminded of how our faith both blesses us and summons us… It calls out the better side of our humanity. It calls us to move beyond ourselves. Again and again, the Bible tells us: think about the other, the stranger, the outsider…  

Our faith summons us not only to receive peace and blessing but to be a blessing and to bring peace.

In this holy season of Advent, I pray that Christ would indeed guide us in the way of peace. May his peace come upon us, and work in us, and even through us.

Let us pray: Holy God, You came as Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Prince of Peace. As we have been blessed, so too may we be a blessing. Work first in our hearts, and then in our lives that your will may be done, on earth, as it is in heaven. In Christ’s name. Amen.

Love Heals

Love Heals

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Scientific research is now confirming what many of us have suspected all along – that love plays a big part in the healing of a hurting body. The poet Elizabeth Barrett was an invalid for many years, unable to lift her head from her pillow. But one day she was visited by a man named Robert Browning. It was love at first sight, and in just one visit, he brought her so much joy and happiness that she lifted her head. On the second visit, she sat up. On the third visit, they eloped! Love has the power to heal both physically and emotionally. No wonder people were healed by coming into physical contact with Jesus. He was love incarnate, and that’s what he is calling us to be today – love made flesh, love personified, love lived out. Think of it – love heals! 

Let us pray: God of love and hope, when we are weak, you are like a rock to us. When we are befitted or endangered by life’s events, you are our fortress. Open our eyes to the beauty of the world you have created; open our ears to your still small voice that seeks to influence us; open our hearts to your amazing grace and forgiving love. Now melt us, mold us, fill us, use us, so that our lives will more closely reflect the life of Jesus, the Christ, whose we are and whom we seek to serve. In his name. Amen.

Even Simple Acts of Love

Even Simple Acts of Love

In the 1600’s a monk named Brother Lawrence wrote a series of letters that were collected and titled, “Practicing the Presence of God.” These letters have been inspirational to many over the years. In one of these letters, he wrote: “Never tire of doing even the smallest things for God, because God isn’t impressed so much with the dimensions of our work as with the love in which it is done.”

Sometimes it feels like our small acts of compassion or our contributions to the church, or our volunteer time won’t make any difference in the long term. After all, the problems and challenges in the world around us are immense. However, Brother Lawrence helps us see this in a different light. He reminds us that what counts most is our heart. Even the smallest act, if done out of love, makes a difference because it is pleasing to God and because that love is passed on.

Much earlier, the Apostle Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 15, “Therefore my dear brothers and sisters stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourself fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.”

Let us pray: We remember, O Lord, that nothing is lost on you; that small things do matter; and that with you, even our simple acts of love can build to a mighty stream. We pray today for a spirit of love – love that overflows and spills out of our hearts and into our actions. We offer our very lives to you again this day – asking you to use the gifts we bring small and large to bless others. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Loving Father

The Loving Father

There’s an old story about a man headed home in the crowded coach of a train. He noticed the young man sitting next to him by the window looked tired and a little anxious. Trying to be friendly, the man struck up a conversation with the boy.  

It turns out that the young man had wanted to join the army against his father’s wishes. Although underage, he ran away from home and tried to enlist in a city miles away. When he arrived, he was turned down because of his age. Too proud to return home in defeat, the young man was heartsick. His few dollars were soon gone. Hunger overcame his pride, and he wrote home for money. He received no answer. He sent another letter, but still no answer.

In desperation, the boy wrote to his father again. He related that on a given day he would be on a certain train that ran nearby his home place. If his parents would receive him at home, they were to put a white rag on the crab apple tree that sat near the train track. If he saw the rag there, he would get off at the station and come home. If no rag were there, he’d just stay on the train.

The boy grew restless as the train rumbled on toward his hometown. A lump caught in his throat, and his eyes filled with tears. “I can’t look,” he said. “I’m afraid.” The man put his arm around the boy’s shoulders. “It’s all right,” he said, “I’ll look for you.” The train whistled for the approaching station and slowed down. Suddenly the man put his hand on the boy’s knee and said, “Son, there’s not one white rag on the tree. But look! There is a white rag on every single limb!”

We know this story, don’t we? It is a story of someone we love being far from home – maybe even us. We’ve all seen this story played out somewhere in our lives, but not always with the same ending. I wish I could say that the prodigal child always returns home and that there is always a happy ending. But it just isn’t true. 

However, the story of the prodigal son and the loving father is indeed a story about God. It is a story about undeserved grace. And God the Father indeed awaits our return – not just once – but always. The Father is waiting – even now.

Let us pray: We thank you for your unconditional love and grace. We turn our hearts to you again this day; through Christ, we pray. Amen.