Close to the Brokenhearted

Close to the Brokenhearted

Rev. King Duncan once told of a story originally reported by a journalist named Tom Junod. It was a true story of a young man afflicted with cerebral palsy. This disease affected not his mind, but his motor skills and his ability to speak. In addition, the young man had been abused by caregivers and so also suffered emotional problems.

One day a children’s foundation set up a meeting between the boy and his hero, Fred Rogers. Upon meeting Mr. Rogers, the boy became so nervous that he started hitting himself, and his mother had to take him to another room to calm him down. When he returned, Mr. Rogers carried on their conversation as if nothing had happened. At the end of the visit, he ended the conversation by asking for a very special favor: would this boy pray for him? The boy was astonished by the request. Would he pray for Mr. Rogers? He had always been the object of someone else’s prayers. But from that day forward, the boy began praying for Fred Rogers.

When Tom Junod complimented Fred Rogers on this idea, Rogers reacted with surprise. He had been sincere in his request for the boy’s prayers. As he said, “I didn’t ask him for his prayers for him, I asked for me. I asked him because I think that anyone who has gone through challenges like that must be very close to God. I asked him because I wanted his intercession.”

It is so true. People who have gone through extremely difficult challenges in life often find they must draw very close to God. For them, it is the only way to survive. 

Psalm 34:18 promises, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…”

My prayer for you today is that you would stay close to people who are going through tough times. Ask for their intersessions for you, even as you pray for them.

Let us pray: Loving God, today we pray that you would stay near to us, and near to all of those who suffer. Deliver us. Heal us. And use us as instruments of your grace. Amen.

God’s Gift of Friendship

God’s Gift of Friendship

The Gospel of Mark (2:1-12) tells a story about a time when Jesus was teaching in a house that was so crowded, there was no room even in the doorway. Outside the house stood a group of men with a friend who was paralyzed. They desperately wanted Jesus to see him and heal him. So these friends climb up on the house, dig through the roof, and lower him down. Amazed by the friends and their faith, Jesus heals the paralyzed man.

Good friends are priceless! 

Some time ago, there was an article on friendship in Christian Century magazine by Paul Wadell, a professor of Religious studies at St. Norbert College. Wadell wrote:

“Friendships are narratives of hope, but they can be sustained only by a generosity of heart and spirit that enables the friends to work through the struggles… that mark any real relationship.”

No doubt, friendships take work. They take deep understanding, patience, and forgiveness. They take time to cultivate, and they require us to stick with them through thick and thin. But they are essential to a healthy and faithful life.

The article goes on to quote Saint Augustine: 

“Friends are God’s gifts to us and God loves us through them.” But friendships are also, “Schools of love.” Through them, we learn to faithfully seek the good of another…

I pray today that God would bless you with a generosity of heart and spirit, and through that blessing may you cultivate good friends to walk with you on this journey of life. 

Let us pray: God of grace, what a gift friends are to us… Thank you for the people with whom we have found a sense of connection and companionship. Thank you for the deep love and grace that we feel through them. We lift up our friends to your care today. We also pray today for those who are lonely, and for others who are most often forgotten. Grant us your grace, your patience, your forgiveness, and your love – that we might be better friends to those we love – and better able to reach out to those who may need us most. Amen. 

Christ the King

Christ the King

There is a passage in the Gospel of Matthew, chapter 25 (verses 31-45), where Jesus appears as a King. We don’t talk a lot about kings here in the United States. When we do it often has a negative connotation – like a dictator or tyrant. Someone who has total authority.

But here in Matthew, what we learn is that Christ the King is not some power-hungry tyrant. Instead, we learn Christ the King is among us – as the person we encounter who is hungry, thirsty, alone, alien, naked, sick, or imprisoned. Christ the King is found in all those who are walking embodiments of human frailty and even human failure.

Jesus makes it clear that he himself is there in that person standing in need in front of us.

Over the years, I’ve heard story after story from people who tell about how it is in those moments of serving others, that they have encountered the presence of Christ… I know I’ve had those moments serving in soup lines and clothes closets. But I have also had them in hospital rooms, around kitchen tables, in hospice settings, listening to the story of a stranger who stopped by to ask for help at the church, and even late at night sitting with a young couple who had lost their child – while they wept and there were no words.

There is no doubt that Christ is there in those moments.

But this story tells us there is more to it than that – that there comes a moment of reckoning – a moment of judgment. Interestingly, this passage is the only passage in the New Testament that gives a detailed picture of the last judgment. And what determines our final accountability before the thrown is not how obediently we stand in awe and worship of Christ the King. It is not how much Bible we know. It is not saying the right creed or praying the sinner’s prayer. Our final accountability will be based upon how we treated the most vulnerable: as a church; as a nation; as an individual.

It is a difficult teaching. And no doubt, a challenge for a lifetime!

No doubt, responding to Jesus’ teachings in this passage is a challenge for a lifetime. But my prayer for us today is that we would never lose sight of the King we worship – a king who is found in the poor, the lonely, the brokenhearted, and the powerless. May you and I – who have more power and means than most in this world – continue to find ways to take care of those most in need in our midst – in any and every way we can. And in doing so find that we are truly giving to Jesus, our King!

Let us pray: Lord Jesus Christ, may we see you in the eyes of each and every person we meet. And may our love for them reflect our love for you. Amen.

The Night Is Far Gone…

The Night Is Far Gone…

In his letter to the Romans (13:11-12), Paul writes, “Besides this, you know what time it is, how it is now the moment for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we became believers; the night is far gone, the day is near.”

The night is far gone, the day is near…

The word Paul used for time, is the Greek word kairos. The other word he could have used, but didn’t, is chronos. Chronos is where we get our word chronological. Kairos, on the other hand, is a weighted word. It indicates a special point in time – perhaps a God-given moment – a moment that may present itself only once, and then it is gone.

In the Buddhist tradition, it is important to recognize beautiful moments – even to name them out loud: “This is a beautiful moment.” It is important to name them because these moments are fleeting. They are here, and then they’re gone.

At Thanksgiving this past year, as my family gathered around the table, I was reminded that this was one of those moments. Children, parents, and grandparents, we all, no matter what age, have a finite number of these kinds of gatherings left in our lives. And so I was encouraged to look around, to appreciate it, and to name it. We don’t know how many more we’ll get. We were all there, all together, all alive in that moment… It was a beautiful moment. 

The truth is, we don’t have forever.

My Friend Roger Kunkel used to tell the story about how one time he went to buy a tree at a nursery up in Wisconsin. There was a sign that said: the best time to buy a tree was twenty years ago. And he thought: Thanks a lot. But on the back of the sign, it read: The second best time to buy a tree is today. Today. 

Today. Right now. 

Are there things that you need to do in your life today? Are there people you need to reach out to today? Are there amends you need to make? Is there someone you need to forgive? Is there a gift that needs to be given? In the time that you have, what priorities might you want to live into? 

Today I pray that you would notice the fullness of this moment God has set before you – a beautiful moment, perhaps – but more importantly, a moment of opportunity.

Let us pray: Eternal God, as we sit on the edge of this new year, we pray with the psalmist that you would teach us to count our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom… We ask in Christ’s name. Amen. 

Three Wishes

Three Wishes

Today’s message was written by Rev. Dr. Roger Kunkel, founder of Dial Hope.

Some years ago, a ten-year-old boy named Johnny was sitting alone on a park bench one afternoon. It was a beautiful spring day and Johnny was watching some other kids play baseball. An older man happened by, saw Johnny sitting there, and sat down beside him. They entered into a conversation. They talked about the gorgeous weather, sports, and their families. Finally, the older man said, “Johnny, I want to ask you a question. If you had three wishes, what would you wish for?” Johnny thought for a moment and then said, “First, I would wish for peace and happiness in the world. Second, I would wish everybody would join a church. And third, I would wish that my best friend Billy, who is blind, would be able to see. That’s what I would wish for.” 

The older man seemed amazed by little Johnny’s answer, and with a look of perplexity, he said goodbye and walked away. Johnny didn’t understand why the man was confused by the answer. He sat there for a moment, and then picked up his crutches and hobbled home! Now you know where Johnny got that gracious, loving spirit, don’t you? He got it from Jesus. He got it from the one who went to the cross for you and me. 

On the cross, God showed us how much he loved us and how much he wants us to love one another. Faith, hope, love – that’s what the cross is about. Whether you are receiving chemotherapy, or radiation, facing the loss of a loved one, whether you are calling from Baghdad, whether you are depressed and lonely, whether you are a teenager or a child, remember – God loves you! And you are blessed to be a blessing to others. 

Let us pray: Loving God, who has given us a mentor and example of living in Jesus, we pray that you will give us the courage and will to see more clearly, love more dearly, and follow more nearly the Christ, day by day. Today, may we reflect the image and spirit of Jesus who was called “The one for others” because he sought to serve rather than be served. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.